If you have ever been to a baby shower or sat in a obstetrician's office, you've heard them...labor and delivery stories. Oh, my goodness! How we love to tell our stories of those life-changing moments. Having six of those experiences myself, I have heard my fair share of "birth stories." Like the roommate I had in the hospital after my very first 36 hour labor with son #1 (It is a miracle of God I ever had another!). As I lay in my hospital bed the color of the sheets, she calmly looked over at me with a smile on her perky face and told me: "Oh, my gosh! I barely made it to the hospital! I had a little backache a couple of hours ago and had NO IDEA I was in labor until I felt a little cramping and the need to push." Say what??? A little cramping?????
I had changed my mind half-way through the birth process with my son and told the nurses: "I am going home. I've changed my mind. I don't want to have a baby anymore." See ya later! NOTHING could be worth what I was going through.
But I was wrong. The minute they put that darling, beautiful boy in my arms, I would have done it again...right then. That is exactly why I had five more after Peter...I knew the joy.
Death is much like birth. In fact, sometimes I think it is exactly like birth. Just as with births, there are all kinds of "death stories." Some are easy and peaceful...some painful and long, but in all there is a "birth" from one world to another. For those who have loved the Lord Jesus and accepted His sacrifice in place of their sins, there is a "birth" from this dark world into the Light of His glorious presence where there is no more pain, no more fear or anxiety...a new life of pure peace and joy. Those of us who know Him, no matter how difficult our death, we will exclaim with joy, "Oh, this is worth it!!!"
BUT...it is as difficult to wrap our minds around this as it is for an infant in the womb to yearn for a world that he has never seen or experienced.
The reality is for those of us who know the grace of Jesus in our lives, to God, our good Father, death is a welcoming home. It is our birth into His loving presence and arms.
Come to think of it, it makes complete sense that Jesus called this new life in Him being "born again!"
If you don't know this Jesus who has made a way for you to perfect joy, peace, and love in the presence of the Father, it is NEVER too late, nor are you ever too far gone. How He loves you and waits for you to accept this free gift of new birth into TRUE life. If you cannot find someone to talk with about Jesus, you can message me here. Or click on the link to join the DV Women's Ministry Facebook Page where you can find a group of loving and compassionate women who would love to answer your questions and give support for your walk with Christ.
If we could grasp the truth of death and what it means to to those who follow Jesus as Lord, we would not fear death. C. S. Lewis puts it this way:
“Has this world been so kind to you that you should leave with
regret? There are better things ahead than any we leave behind.”
Well, my sisters, (and occasional brothers:) this is a tough subject to tackle for all of us. My hope is that as we think of Truth...His Truth..that our fear of death will fall away, so we might live this life with JOY!
Speaking of "joy," I have asked one of the most joyful people I know, my dear friend, Susi, to write a post for this week on "The Fear of Death." I have watched Susi and her family live out a life of hope and joy AFTER losing their daughter,Hannah, to cancer. You won't want to miss "Hannah's Story" tomorrow on the blog!!!!
Blessings, sweet ones!!!